Not to be rude or come off as pervy, but how much muscle do you have to make is seem unflattering? Myself and many others find muscles on women extremely attractive. Just embrace yourself and the fact your jacked.
I used to have a lot of muscle bulk in my legs when I was younger, and I got a lot of compliments on them, so I don't think it was a negative thing in that respect. I lost most of that muscle when I started going to the gym to lose a lot a weight I had gained rapidly due to some medication. It was not my intention to lose muscle during this time, I just have a difficult time burning fat without losing muscle (and gaining muscle without gaining fat). The only upside I can think of to losing the muscle is, there are fewer muscle fibers to have myotonia in.
Anyway, I wouldn't worry about being too muscular looking.